English Language — 4.1.3 Language in a social setting

Grade 4  ·  40 minutes  ·  Term 2 week 7  ·  20 June 2026

SchoolMayasanino primary
TeacherMs Threser Nkhata
Date20 Jun 2026
ClassGrade 4
SubjectEnglish Language
Duration40 min
TimePeriod 2. 09:00 - 09:40
Learners31
Term/WeekTerm 2 week 7

Topic

4.1.3 Language in a social setting

Sub-Topic

4.1.3.1 polite expressions

General Competences

Communication, Collaboration, Emotional Intelligence

Specific Competences

4.1.3.1.1 use polite expressions in different settings

Learning Activities

Requesting for help using appropriate vocabulary

Expected Standard

Polite expressions used appropriately in different social settings

References

Ministry of education syllabus grade 4

Lesson Goal

By the end of this lesson, learners should be able to use polite expressions such as "please," "thank you," "excuse me," and "may I" appropriately when requesting for help in different social settings, demonstrating both verbal accuracy and awareness of context.

Rationale

This lesson builds on learners' prior understanding of greetings and basic conversational English by introducing specific polite expressions used when requesting help, thereby extending their communicative competence in real-life social interactions. Mastering polite expressions is essential for Grade 4 learners as it fosters respect, empathy, and positive relationships within their family, school, and community settings in rural Zambia. Through the Gradual Release of Responsibility model, which progresses from teacher modelling to collaborative group work and independent practice, learners develop the competences of Communication, Collaboration, and Emotional Intelligence by actively practising polite requests in scaffolded, learner-centred activities.

Prior Knowledge / Prerequisite Knowledge

Grade 4 learners already possess basic vocabulary for greetings (e.g., "Good morning," "How are you?") and simple sentence structures for making statements (e.g., "I want water," "I need a pen"). They can also identify common social situations where talk is required, such as in the classroom, at the market, or at home. This prior knowledge will be activated at the start of the lesson through a brief oral review where learners share what they already say when they need something from a friend or an adult, creating a natural bridge to the new content of using specific polite expressions for requesting help.

Learning Environment

  • Natural Environment: The teacher draws on familiar rural Zambian contexts such as a village well (where learners might ask for help carrying water), a community grinding mill (where one might request assistance with maize), or a neighbour's home (where a child might ask for help with a school task). These natural reference points make the concept of polite requests immediately relevant and concrete for learners.
  • Artificial Environment: The classroom is arranged in mixed-ability pairs and groups of 4–6 learners, with desks clustered to facilitate face-to-face interaction. A large chart titled "Polite Expressions We Use" is displayed on the wall, listing phrases such as "Please help me," "Thank you very much," and "Excuse me, may I ask?" alongside simple illustrations. A second chart shows a village scene with speech bubbles containing polite requests. These visual supports are referenced throughout the lesson to anchor learning.
  • Technological Environment: The teacher uses a battery-powered radio or a small speaker to play a pre-recorded audio clip of two children in a rural setting using polite expressions when asking for help (e.g., one child asking another to help carry a bucket of water). If a projector is available, the teacher displays simple images of social settings (classroom, home, market, well) where polite requests are needed. These tools are used during the I DO phase for modelling and during the WE DO phases for prompting discussion.

Teaching and Learning Materials / Resources

  • A large wall chart titled "Polite Expressions We Use" listing phrases with simple illustrations
  • A village-scene chart with speech bubbles depicting polite requests
  • Pre-recorded audio clip (on a phone or radio) of children using polite expressions in rural settings
  • Picture cards showing different social settings (classroom, home, market, well, grinding mill)
  • Set of word cards with polite expressions (please, thank you, excuse me, may I, sorry, could you)
  • Worksheets with role-play scenarios for group work
  • Exercise books and pencils for learners
  • Small props for role-play (a bucket, a book, a water cup, a pen)

Cross-Cutting Issues

The following cross-cutting issues are integrated into this lesson on "4.1.3.1 polite expressions":

  • National Values and Principles: This lesson directly promotes the values of respect, courtesy, and kindness by teaching learners to use polite language when interacting with others. Every activity — from the teacher's modelling to group role-plays and independent practice — emphasises that polite expressions reflect good character and strengthen community bonds, which are core Zambian values.
  • Social and Emotional Learning: Learners develop self-awareness and social awareness as they practise recognising the feelings of others when making requests. During collaborative activities, they learn to take turns, listen actively, and express needs respectfully — building empathy and interpersonal skills essential for healthy relationships at school, at home, and in the wider community.

Lesson Progression (Model: Gradual Release of Responsibility (GRR))

Phase Teacher Activities Learner Activities Assessment Criteria
INTRODUCTION
I DO
Focus Lesson
6 min
  • Hook: "Listen carefully. Imagine you are at the village well with your young brother. The bucket is very heavy and you cannot lift it alone. There is an older woman nearby. What do you say to her? Turn to your partner and share your idea quickly." The teacher listens to a few responses, then says: "Today we are going to learn the best words to use when we need help — these are called polite expressions."
  • Prior Knowledge Questions: "What do you say when you want your friend to pass you a pencil?" and "What do you say when someone gives you something you asked for?" Learners respond with phrases like "Give me" or "Thank you." The teacher gently corrects "Give me" to "Please give me."
  • Lesson Goal: "By the end of this lesson, you will all be able to use polite expressions like 'please,' 'thank you,' 'excuse me,' and 'may I' when you ask for help in different places — at school, at home, or at the market."
  • Direct Instruction: The teacher models a think-aloud: "When I need help, I think about the person I am talking to. If I am asking my friend to help me carry books, I say: 'Please, could you help me carry these books?' I do not say 'Carry these for me!' because that sounds rude. Polite words show respect." The teacher writes on the board: "Please help me carry these books." and "Thank you for helping me."
  • Worked Example: "Watch me write a polite request on the board. I am at the market and I need help lifting a sack of maize into my cart. I say: 'Excuse me, sir. Please, could you help me lift this sack?' Thank you very much." The teacher writes: "Excuse me, sir. Please, could you help me lift this sack? Thank you very much." and underlines the polite words.
  • Learners respond to the hook by sharing what they already say when they need help at the well or in similar situations. (Develops: Communication, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners answer prior knowledge questions by offering common phrases they use for requests and thanks. (Develops: Communication)
  • Learners listen to and repeat the lesson goal in their own words: "We will learn to say please and thank you when we ask for help." (Develops: Communication)
  • Learners observe the teacher's think-aloud modelling, following the steps for constructing a polite request. (Develops: Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners copy the worked example into their exercise books, underlining the polite expressions. (Develops: Communication)
  • Learners accurately recall a polite expression they already know from home or school.
  • Learners correctly identify the polite word "thank you" when prompted about receiving something.
  • Learners confidently restate the lesson goal in simple terms.
  • Learners attentively observe the modelled example without prompting.
  • Learners accurately copy the worked example, underlining all polite expressions.
DEVELOPMENT
WE DO
Guided Instruction
11 min
  • Learning Activities: The teacher says: "Now we are going to practise requesting for help using appropriate vocabulary. I will help you at first, and then you will try more on your own."
  • Guided Task: "Look at this picture card of a classroom. A learner has dropped all her books on the floor. She needs help picking them up. Together, let us write a polite request on the board." The teacher writes with learner input: "Excuse me, please help me pick up my books. Thank you." The teacher prompts: "What polite word should we use first? What should we say after the person helps?"
  • Prompting Questions: "If you want to borrow a pen from your friend, do you say 'Give me your pen' or 'Please, may I borrow your pen?' Why is the second one better?" and "What do you say after your friend lends you the pen?" and "What if you need to get past someone in a crowded space — what polite expression do you use?"
  • Scaffolded Practice: "Now I will give you a situation. You are at home and your grandmother is cooking. You need help reaching a cup on a high shelf. With the person next to you, practise what you would say. Use polite expressions." The teacher walks around, listens, and offers prompts: "Remember to say 'please' and 'thank you.'"
  • Feedback: "I heard Chanda say to his partner: 'Please, can you help me reach the cup? Thank you, Grandma.' That was excellent! Remember, always start with 'please' and end with 'thank you.' Some of you forgot to say 'excuse me' first — that is important when the person is busy."
  • Learners contribute ideas to co-construct the polite request on the board, offering specific polite words. (Develops: Communication, Collaboration)
  • Learners respond to prompting questions by explaining why "Please, may I borrow your pen?" is more polite than "Give me your pen." (Develops: Communication, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners practise three guided exercise questions: (1) "Write one polite expression you use when you need help carrying water." (2) "Fill in the blank: '______, could you help me lift this bucket?' — what polite word goes in the blank?" (3) "True or False: It is OK to say 'Give me that' when asking a friend for help." Learners self-check with a partner. (Develops: Communication, Critical Thinking)
  • Learners identify and correct errors in sample rude requests provided by the teacher, changing them into polite expressions. (Develops: Communication, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners correctly contribute at least one polite word to the co-constructed request on the board.
  • Learners accurately explain why polite expressions show respect when prompted.
  • Learners correctly complete all three guided exercise questions with teacher support.
  • Learners appropriately transform a rude request into a polite expression using guidance.
WE DO
Collaborative
17 min
  • Task: "In your groups of four, I am giving each group a scenario card. Your task is to read the scenario together, decide what polite expression to use, and then act out the scene. Each person in the group must say at least one polite request or polite response. You will present your role-play to the class." The scenarios are: (1) At the well — asking an elder to help pull up a bucket, (2) At school — asking the teacher for help with a difficult sum, (3) At the market — asking a vendor to help lift a bag of groundnuts, (4) At home — asking a sibling to help sweep the room, (5) At the clinic — asking the nurse for help understanding a medicine bottle.
  • Discussion Prompt: "Before you act, discuss in your group: Who are you talking to? What polite words will you use? What will you say after the person helps you? Write your polite request on the group worksheet."
  • Facilitation: The teacher circulates among groups, listening to discussions and observing role-plays. The teacher offers quiet prompts only when a group is stuck: "Think about what we learned — start with 'excuse me' or 'please,' and end with 'thank you.'" The teacher does not direct but supports.
  • Sharing: "Group 1, please come to the front and show us your role-play. The rest of the class will watch and listen for the polite expressions used. After the role-play, clap for them." Three groups present. The teacher asks the class: "What polite expressions did you hear Group 1 use?"
  • Learners read the scenario card together and discuss the setting and the person they are addressing. (Develops: Communication, Collaboration, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners collaborate to write a polite request on the group worksheet, with each member contributing ideas. (Develops: Communication, Collaboration)
  • Learners practise the role-play, with each member saying at least one polite expression (request or response). (Develops: Communication, Collaboration, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Selected groups present their role-play to the class, demonstrating polite expressions in context. Listening learners identify the polite expressions used by the presenting group. (Develops: Communication, Collaboration, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners appropriately identify the social setting and the person they need to address politely.
  • Learners accurately write a polite request using at least two polite expressions in their group worksheet.
  • Learners confidently perform a role-play that includes at least one polite request and one polite response per member.
  • Learners correctly identify at least two polite expressions used in the presenting group's role-play.
CONCLUSION
YOU DO
Independent Practice
6 min
  • Independent Task: "Now you will work alone. In your exercise book, write two polite requests: one for asking your friend to help you carry your school bag, and one for asking the shopkeeper at the market to help you find salt. Write each request as a full sentence. You have three minutes. Begin." The teacher observes quietly without intervening, noting which learners are able to work independently.
  • Consolidation Questions: "What is the first polite word you should use when you start a request?" (Answer: Please or Excuse me.) "What do you say after someone helps you?" (Answer: Thank you.) "Why do we use polite expressions instead of demanding what we want?" (Answer: They show respect and kindness.)
  • Learner-Led Summary: "Mulenga, can you tell the class one thing you learned today about polite expressions?" "Mwila, what will you say tomorrow when you need help carrying your books?" Two to three learners share their summaries.
  • Link Forward: "Tomorrow, we will learn how to respond when someone uses a polite expression with us — how to accept a request politely or offer help kindly."
  • Homework: "At home tonight, use two polite expressions with a family member — for example, ask your mother or grandmother politely for help with something, and say thank you when they assist you. Write down what you said and what they said. Bring it to class tomorrow."
  • Closure: "You all worked very hard today. I am proud of how you used polite expressions in your role-plays and in your writing. Remember, polite words make our community a happy place. Class dismissed!"
  • Learners write two polite request sentences independently in their exercise books without teacher assistance. (Develops: Communication)
  • Learners respond to consolidation questions individually, demonstrating recall of key polite expressions. (Develops: Communication)
  • Learners summarise the key learning points in their own words when invited by the teacher. (Develops: Communication)
  • Learners record the homework task in their exercise books and commit to practising polite expressions at home. (Develops: Communication, Emotional Intelligence)
  • Learners independently and correctly write two complete polite request sentences using "please" and "thank you."
  • Learners accurately recall and state the polite expressions "please," "excuse me," and "thank you" when asked.
  • Learners clearly explain in their own words that polite expressions show respect and kindness.
  • Learners correctly record the homework task and can restate what they will practise at home.

Class Exercise

Instructions to learners: Answer all five questions in your exercise book. Show all working where applicable. Time allowed: 10 minutes.

  1. Multiple Choice: Which of the following is a polite way to ask a friend for help carrying water?
    A) "Carry this water for me."
    B) "Please, can you help me carry the water?"
    C) "Take this water."
    D) "I need water carried."
  2. Fill in the Blank: When you need to get past someone in a narrow path, you say: "________ me, please."
  3. Short Answer: Write one polite expression you can use when you want to borrow a pencil from your classmate. Write the full sentence.
  4. True or False: "It is polite to say 'Thank you' after someone helps you." Write "True" or "False" and explain why in one sentence.
  5. Application (Scenario): You are at the village grinding mill. The bag of maize is very heavy and you cannot lift it onto the machine. There is an elderly man standing nearby. Write the full polite request you would say to him, using at least two polite expressions. Then write what you would say after he helps you.

Answer Key (For Teacher Use Only)

  1. Question 1 — Multiple Choice
    Answer: B) "Please, can you help me carry the water?"
    Marks: 1 mark for selecting the correct option.
  2. Question 2 — Fill in the Blank
    Answer: "Excuse me, please."
    Marks: 1 mark for writing "Excuse" (case insensitive; accept "Excuse me" or "Excuse" with correct spelling).
  3. Question 3 — Short Answer
    Answer: Any full sentence containing at least one polite expression, e.g., "Please, may I borrow your pencil?" or "Excuse me, can I use your pencil, please?" or "Could I please borrow your pencil?"
    Marks: 2 marks — 1 mark for including a polite expression (please, excuse me, may I, could I), 1 mark for writing a complete sentence.
  4. Question 4 — True or False with Explanation
    Answer: True. Explanation: It is polite to say "thank you" because it shows gratitude and respect to the person who helped you. (Accept any reasonable explanation that conveys gratitude/respect.)
    Marks: 2 marks — 1 mark for "True," 1 mark for a valid explanation.
  5. Question 5 — Application Scenario
    Answer: Polite request: "Excuse me, sir. Please, could you help me lift this bag of maize onto the machine? Thank you very much." Or similar variation containing at least two polite expressions (e.g., "excuse me," "please," "thank you," "may I ask," "could you"). After help: "Thank you so much for your help, sir." or "I really appreciate your help. Thank you."
    Marks: 3 marks — 1 mark for including "excuse me" or an appropriate opener, 1 mark for including "please" or "could you" in the request, 1 mark for including "thank you" after the help. Total 3 marks.

Total Marks: 9  |  Suggested Completion Time: 10 minutes

Lesson Evaluation

Instructions to the teacher: Focus on the competences learners were able to demonstrate, use clear evidence from their work and participation, note any difficulties they faced, reflect on what worked or did not work in your teaching, and state what support or next steps are needed.

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